Travel is just designed to piss people off nowadays. They charge you for food. They charge you for baggage. They charge you for extra legroom. And now they are stooping to a new low: they charge you extra to not be in a middle seat!! To me, this is truly obnoxious. (I am not sure how many airlines are doing this, but KLM is, and I'm sure others will soon catch on.)
Wednesday, July 09, 2014
Friday, July 04, 2014
Today is the day-- a cold and wet and dreary July 4th, when I should be celebrating the birth of our nation by sunning myself and eating hot dogs but am instead huddled indoors catching up on my finances. And because today is the day I decided to pay attention to 6 months' worth of investment transactions, today is the day I became a millionaire. In truth, it probably happened on a different day, but today is the day I first saw it in my net worth report in Quicken:
It looks like the sky is starting to lighten up a bit, so maybe it's finally time to turn off the laptop and start celebrating July 4th in a more typical way! Happy Independence Day, everyone!
Wednesday, June 18, 2014
For the last few months, I have had a very pleasant problem: approximately $150,000 in cash sitting in my savings account. Most of this is from the proceeds of selling my condo, plus a little growth from savings and interest. I have been holding off on any big investment decisions for a while, partly out of pure laziness and partly because there are some possibilities floating around for how to use the money.
Friday, June 13, 2014
At a family party recently, one of my aunts took me aside to say she had something very important to give to my sister and me. This was the aunt for was the executor of Great Aunt Minnie's estate. And sure enough, there turned out to be some additional inheritance funds coming to us! My aunt had finally rolled all the coins that Minnie had kept in a jar, and after taking them to the bank, there must have been about $30. My aunt handed me a little envelope with my sister's and my name on it, and inside there were two silver dollars (the old ones with JFK in them) and 3 dollar bills. My sister and I each kept 1 coin, and I let her have 2 of the dollar bills, since neither of us had change... And, well, she's got a family to support and all...
Sunday, March 23, 2014
I haven't written much about my mom over the last 5 years or so since my Dad died. To make a long story short, it's been too painful and stressful to even think too much about her finances. She didn't want to take any of my advice on how to manage her money and I knew things would go badly.
Now I know just how badly they've gone.
After my dad died, my mother would have had about $350,000 in various bank accounts-- CDs, mostly. This was what was left of my dad's 401k and a life insurance payment. She also owned her house, with no mortgage.
Now, according to what my mom told me yesterday, she has about $30,000 in a bank account. She still has the house, and no mortgage. Her monthly income from my father's pension and Social Security totals a little under $3,000. She's only 70 years old.
Somehow in 5 years, she managed to blow through over $450k. I'm still reeling at trying to do the math. I know she did various renovations on the house, and some redecorating. She gave away perfectly good furniture and bought new pieces. She hired people to help her move stuff around and do painting and other minor repairs. But it's not like she gut-renovated the whole house. It's hard for me to get my head around how much all that cost, but I would guess maybe $75,000. Maybe $100,000. Her other major expense has been keeping my grandparents in a nursing home. Although they are quite poor, with no assets other than a small house and a coffee can full of small bills that my mother and her 3 siblings already spent, they'd apparently run into roadblocks in qualifying for Medicaid or any other benefits. (They live in Puerto Rico, where the laws are a bit different.) Just recently it looked like they might actually start getting some coverage due to Veteran's benefits, but for several years, my mother and her siblings have been footing the bill on their own. What's worse is that not all the siblings are contributing equally-- the one who actually has the most money has been delinquent in sending checks and arguing all the way over what kind of care my grandparents should get. Meanwhile the other siblings are dealing with disabled children or spouses with cancer and various other dramas, so my mom feels that she has to step in and do more than her share.
On top of all that, one of the siblings asked my mother for a loan of several thousand dollars to help pay for her daughter's baby shower, which is apparently going to be a rather grand affair practically on the scale of a wedding reception. That sibling will hopefully pay my mom back after a court case she's involved in is over, if the lawyers who have been working on it for years don't take all the proceeds of the settlement first.
Is that enough f**'d up drama for you? But wait, there will be more. My mom wants to sell her house and move down to Puerto Rico to my grandparents', where she can live more cheaply and take care of some of their needs herself. She insists that she will be able to live on her current income if she does this. She also insists that my father intended for my sister and me to have an inheritance, therefore she has been talking to a lawyer about how the proceeds of the house should go into some kind of irrevocable trust that my sister and I will manage, because she got it into her head that her biggest priority right now is to qualify for Medicaid when she goes into a nursing home herself. (She does have some health issues, but I don't see her needing a nursing home anytime soon, though I guess you never know.) The proceeds from the house sale could end up being about $500,000 after all the fees and taxes, perhaps a bit more.
I told my mother that the idea of us getting that kind of inheritance was insane in her circumstances, and that all my father ever wanted was for my mother to be taken care of and not stupidly bankrupt herself. She said that my sister and I could give her whatever she needed from the interest from the investment earnings of the trust, which of course we are willing to do, but if the principal is locked up for some period of time, I just know we'll end up having to dip into our own savings for other things my mother needs or wants. That is theoretically fine if we get paid back from the trust principal at some later time, but I'm not even sure my sister has savings to dip into in the meantime, and she has two kids to put through college in a few years. And even if we're just managing Mom's money to keep her from making bad decisions, that means we're going to end up butting heads whenever she wants to do something we disagree with. I don't know what's worse, the idea of my mother uncontrollably burning through half a million dollars and then being really truly broke, or the prospect of years of nasty arguments. Right now she's acting all saintly about it, saying she knows we'll take care of the money and do right by her and that this is really what she wants to do, but I can see her bitterly regretting it later if she thinks her daughters are denying her needs and forcing her to live like a pauper. The idea of her happily living on $35k a year when she's been averaging over $90k a year lately is just one more indication that my mother has no sense of financial reality. Even without the expenses of the house, I just don't see that working. Either way, she has to sell the house as it's just too expensive for her to manage, but she's already talking about all the work she'll have to do on my grandparents' house to make it a comfortable place for her to live-- like replacing the entire line connecting it to the sewer system because apparently you can't flush the least scrap of toilet paper without flooding the bathroom, which is indeed gross, but could be coped with in other less expensive ways, as they do in entire countries in other parts of the world!
So nothing has been acted on just yet, but that's what's up with me lately! Fun times ahead!
Saturday, January 25, 2014
Seriously, I can't remember my salary! I was thinking about it just now and I know it is over $100k, but I don't remember how much. At one point it was $102k, but is it now more? $106k? $110k? I have been getting small raises each year, and just got one recently, so I should remember this more precisely, but I just don't.
Monday, January 13, 2014
My, it's been a while, but I have been a busy girl and have lots to tell. I haven't wrapped up all my final numbers yet but I will give you a spoiler: my net worth is now over $900,000. I am wondering if I dare make my 2014 year-end goal the big One Million! Yikes.